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I was wondering, is there any general guideline for depth of anal penetration, other than feeling? Thanks for looking, I have not found any specific number (in inches), so I was wondering if there is a specific number that is considered "too deep" or unsafe.
Further information; I am a male, 6' tall and below average weight (hope that is valuable to answer this question). As an aside, this is toys only (both flexible and hard), NOT with other men. | | JJ gave a great answer; the only thing I would add is to be sure you use plenty of lube, and when trying to achieve the first penetration, don't force, just use gentle pressure until your sphincter relaxes(which it will), allowing you to achieve entry. Once you are in, you can easily decide how much depth feels good to you. | Accidental Anal Penetration-How long should you bleed and be in pain? My boyfriend and I were having rough and wild sex. He slipped out and back in the wrong place, entering my anus partially. I have never had anal sex and never intended to nor has he. He probably got about 2 or 3 inches deep before I pushed him off of me. The pain was excruciating! I fell onto the floor crying in pain. His penis went limp immediately when he saw me in pain. When I finally gained enough strength for him to walk me to the bathroom. I realized I was bleeding! This happened around 10pm last night it's about 4 am now and I'm in so much pain. It hurts to walk, sit, move. The bleeding is just now starting to let up 6 hours later. I had to keep changing out the tissue down there because of the blood. How long is the pain supposed to last? Is it serious enough to go to the ER? Is it ok to just take pain killers ie. IB profen? Will I keep bleeding? *Please only serious replies, I don't need anyone saying that there's no such thing as accidental anal penetration because I just experienced it. Thanks* | you sound like a lucky lady.
Give it another go and this will no longer be an issue anymore | What is normal depth for anal penetration? And why do I encounter hard resistance? Well, I am wondering if how deep one SHOULD be able to penetrate them-self (referring to using toys here obviously). I have found that at about 6 inches, I encounter a hard resistance that won't allow my toys to go any further. Is that normal? I can;t seem to get past the resistance any way that I try, but I have never heard anyone else say anything similar. I hear of people getting 10 inches in them, and some even more than that. I was just wondering if anyone had ideas as to why this was happening, or what it could be. also, if it is normal, then how do I... well, get around it? any help would be greatly appreciated ^_^ | | I second what Jim said. I never knew the technical term for it but... I know a long toy, or guy, will at first "bottom out" around 6-7". After a moment of being easy and working it in, I can take over 10". My b/f has a thick 10" **** and it only takes a couple of slow strokes and he's all the way in. Go slow and feel your way around. | Porn actresses who are pregnant and still make films? My husband watches them. We have 2 grown-up guyren. I'm 49 and he's 61. He likes to watch pregnant porn films. Some are heavily pregnant doing vaginal sex - deep penetration, some doing anal and double penetration - with a guy inside them!!! Is my husband a pervert for watching this type of sex? He's always loved porn ever since we were married.
What type of women do these type of films - porno stars who happen to get pregnant during their job or do they search for them? What happens to the baby? I think this is all pretty disgusting myself! | everyone has their own opinion on this. as far as i'm concerned, when one partner does something controversial that really embarrasses or makes the other partner feel disgusted, degraded or repulsed, that behaviour needs modification.
my personal opinion on porn, and those who watch it, never mind the type that includes an unborn guy, is not the point here.
the point is, this behaviour revolts you, and you should have done something about it ages ago. you need to speak to him - very strongly, and you might need to rethink whether you want to live with this for the rest of your life or not if he refuses to change. | Question for men with girlfriends and fetishes? ive been dating a girl for 4 months now and she is totally VANILLA, i have a few fetishes that ive been really neglecting since i started dating her. i have to devote a whole about 5 hours every other friday to indulge in them. My fetishes include Anal, Leather, Domination, hentai, deep penetration, and roleplay, and a few others but these are the strongest needs. i need advice from men who are in similar situations. how do u indulge in your fetish without getting caught. i once suggested anal to her and she freaked out at me so telling her is out of the question. i really like her but i am addicted to my needs. | Whatever you do, I advise you to not take Vibrant1's advice. Seeing a hooker would not only be immoral (especially considering you have a girlfriend), but it would also probably be expensive and if your girlfriend finds out, your relationship would be history.
As far as anal goes, that's something a lot of girls turn down, especially if a guy asks for it from out of the blue. Instead, just try to gradually get her into your fetish. For example, if she wears something made of leather near you one day, you can tell her she looks cute in it. Eventually, she may decide to start wearing it more since you like how she looks in it and you can eventually go from saying it's cute to it's a turn on.
You might be able to get her into role playing, since it's something a lot of couples actually try to spice up their sex life and add some variation. You can also gradually throw in some domination into that, since role playing has the ability to mix with domination (and other fetishes) quite well. I don't know whether by "domination" you mean you enjoy being the dominant one or the one being dominated, though.
For deep penetration, you could just gradually go deeper every time the two of you have sex. Just go slightly deeper than you did last time. If there's ever a point where she tells you to stop or that it makes her uncomfortable, apologize and tell her about your fetish after you're done.
As far as hentai goes, I have no clue how people act on that fetish, so I can't really help you out in that department. I thought hentai was just anime porn, and since life isn't an anime, I'm not sure if there's a way you can act on that, especially with your girlfriend.
Just don't try to go overboard with it too soon, though; like I said, make it gradual. Just make sure she's comfortable with one of your fetishes before you start acting on it. Most girls become a lot more comfortable with a guy's fetish if it doesn't seem to come up from nowhere all of a sudden. I've even heard some success stories from people who use the "make it gradual" method that some people actually got their girlfriends into their fetishes; after seeing how turned on it makes their boyfriend, they wind up enjoying it, themselves, because it makes them feel sexy by making their boyfriend become extremely turned on. Just don't ask her to help you act on your fetishes too often, because she'll just wind up thinking you only want sex and don't truly love her. | Pain after Anal Sex? Just had a quick question
My girlfriend and I tried anal sex the other night. She had previously used an anal plug before so she wasn't a complete virgin back there.
Anyways, during penetration she experienced no pain whatsoever, so the sex was enjoyable for both of us, which was a goal accomplished. Afterwards, she said she could tell she had something up there earlier, but it wasn't pain.
20 minutes after, she had a minor pain on her lower right back near here butt. She described it as pulling a muscle but said she doesn't think she did. She's afraid that I went too deep in her. However, she described the pain as completely minor and it didn't really affect her other than she was concerned about it.
I'm just wondering if there's something to be concerned about for her. I didn't even go as far as she did with the anal plug, but you never know. I think she's just working herself up because it was her first time, but it's good to be precautionary!
Thanks for the answers! | | exit only! | Do men have an inbuilt, natural aversion to penetration? In heterosexual sex, the man is the penetrater, the woman is the penetrated.
Many men are ok about having anal sex with a woman.
However, when it comes to having anything inserted into their body cavity, many men view this with disgust/horror/fear/a mixture of them all.
As seen in countless comedy sketches where the man in hospital is about to have his temp taken rectally. Also, countless jokes re prostate exams.
Women generally just accept such exams as medical procedure when carried out as part of a gynaecological exam by a doctor. But men seem to find the prospect far more worrying.
Also, as stimulation of the prostate can produce such intense orgasms for men, there must be something pretty strong deterring them from exploring that more.
Is it because men have a natural aversion to any penetration of their bits down there?
Or is it a learned response, as a result of a deep seated fear that to accept such a thing would bring a man perilously close to what homosexuals must enjoy?
Please reply without getting too explicit - I don't want some 'worthy' person reporting me!
Thanks :) | "Or is it a learned response, as a result of a deep seated fear that to accept such a thing would bring a man perilously close to what homosexuals must enjoy?"
Most of the time, it's that. | Is this a better mentality to have for a happy relationship? I thought my girlfriend was very innocent. She always made it seem like she was waiting for the right guy to do sexual things with. Because I didnt want to corrupt her or "use" her she basically called the shots in the bedroom.
I just found out that she wasnt as good as she made herself out to be, and the guy she previously dated always bugged her for handjobs, and she obliged because she liked the guy and wanted to please, even though she didnt feel comfortable giving them.
Now i'm thinking that it's my turn to get what I want out of the relationship (sexually). She doesnt like deep penetration but I do. I really have enjoyed anal the few times we have tried it, and I want to come in her. She usually has me pull out or wear a condom. Not too much but I feel I'm due my own pleasure. | God you are selfish. She was uncomfortable with it and might have felt she had to do it to keep him or something. She obviously was immature in the relationship to not say no when she didn't want to do it. Many times women are manipulated into doing things they don't want..... that is how porn and prostitution is started...with manipulation of women. They don't do it because they LIKE IT....they are USED..just like you want to USE HER for YOUR PLEASURE. You are a gem buddy..... (sarcasm in case you didn't feel it.)
If you cared for her this would not matter...but you want what you feel is OWED TO YOU???? ARE YOU KIDDING ME???? You are no better than any other guy buddy.....you are WORSE!
If you can't find pleasure in what you share with her because you LOVE HER...you have no business making love in the first place. You are USING HER.!!!!! | Conservatives, do you agree with comprehensive and in-depth sex education such as this? So in answer to the question How do lesbians have sex? the answer is simple. Like everyone else, it all falls under personal preference. Sex is really such a personal and intimate act that no one answer would fit for everyone, but here are a few particulars to consider ...
BODIES. We sometimes forget that the entire body is an erogenous zone. Sensitive areas include the face, ears, neck, arms, chest, belly, back, butt, and thighs, back of knees, calves, feet and toes. The entire body can be used to excite a woman. Rubbing bodies together, feeling erect nipples or moist pubic area can excite with subtle motions.
FINGERS. Fingers can be delightful to use on those women who enjoy penetration (not all women do). Some women appreciate long, thin fingers while others like the feel of short, strong fingers. No matter what the preference, all women appreciate clean, short, well-filed nails.
HANDS. Running hands up and down a lover's body will often elicit electric responses of passion. From light caresses down the back to deep rubbing across the butt, caressing is an important aspect to sex. Caressing often turns to gentle pinching or tugging at nipples. Lightly running fingers in a tickling motion across the belly and sides will excite many women. Once excitement has built, slipping fingers into the vagina or rubbing against the clitoris will often bring a woman to orgasm.
MOUTH. Kissing is a good place to begin and a very important part of sex. Kisses come in different styles depending on the person, the mood and the moment. Tiny, soft kisses tantalize and intrigue. Deep, open-mouth kisses with tongues entwined convey a depth of passion and longing. Kisses are appropriate for any part of the body, wherever one feels the urge to place them, lightly or with trailing tongues. Gently nibbling or sucking on nipples excites some women, and some women can reach orgasm just from breast arousal. It is important to note reactions to these stimulations as some women dislike having their breasts touched at all. Gently nibbling or sucking on a responsive clitoris is enjoyed by most women and most often results in orgasm.
PELVIC AREA. Some women can reach orgasm by rubbing pelvic areas together or against a lover's leg. This can be done with one partner on top or two women side-to-side.
ANAL SEX. Anal sex can include anilingus (licking the anus) and/or penetration. Penetration can be done with a finger or fingers, dildo or *********. Some women love anal sex, others do not. Like everything else, it's all personal preference.
DILDOS, VIBRATORS & BUTT PLUGS. (Or objects used to vaginal or anal penetration). Some women use dildos and/or butt plugs some do not. Some use them occasionally; some use them all the time. Dildos come in many different shapes, colors and sizes. Some are shaped as corncobs, fists, dolphins or fingers. Some have attachments to stimulate the clitoris during penetration and some have two ends to stimulate two women at one time. It's all personal preference.
FISTING. Fisting is penetrating a woman's vagina with your entire hand. Fisting requires a lot of concentration and caution. I recommend Hand In The Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting, by Deborah Addington, if you want to learn the proper how-to on fisting.
MUTUAL MASTURBATION. Many women enjoy mutual masturbation. Lying while facing each other, simultaneously rubbing and touching each other's clitoris can be educational as well as enjoyable. | | WTF??!!!!!!!!? | Christians, Do you think sex ed should be taught in a manner as comprehensive as this? This would be an example of learning about homosexual lifestyles as well?
So in answer to the question How do lesbians have sex? the answer is simple. Like everyone else, it all falls under personal preference. Sex is really such a personal and intimate act that no one answer would fit for everyone, but here are a few particulars to consider ...
BODIES. We sometimes forget that the entire body is an erogenous zone. Sensitive areas include the face, ears, neck, arms, chest, belly, back, butt, and thighs, back of knees, calves, feet and toes. The entire body can be used to excite a woman. Rubbing bodies together, feeling erect nipples or moist pubic area can excite with subtle motions.
FINGERS. Fingers can be delightful to use on those women who enjoy penetration (not all women do). Some women appreciate long, thin fingers while others like the feel of short, strong fingers. No matter what the preference, all women appreciate clean, short, well-filed nails.
HANDS. Running hands up and down a lover's body will often elicit electric responses of passion. From light caresses down the back to deep rubbing across the butt, caressing is an important aspect to sex. Caressing often turns to gentle pinching or tugging at nipples. Lightly running fingers in a tickling motion across the belly and sides will excite many women. Once excitement has built, slipping fingers into the vagina or rubbing against the clitoris will often bring a woman to orgasm.
MOUTH. Kissing is a good place to begin and a very important part of sex. Kisses come in different styles depending on the person, the mood and the moment. Tiny, soft kisses tantalize and intrigue. Deep, open-mouth kisses with tongues entwined convey a depth of passion and longing. Kisses are appropriate for any part of the body, wherever one feels the urge to place them, lightly or with trailing tongues. Gently nibbling or sucking on nipples excites some women, and some women can reach orgasm just from breast arousal. It is important to note reactions to these stimulations as some women dislike having their breasts touched at all. Gently nibbling or sucking on a responsive clitoris is enjoyed by most women and most often results in orgasm.
PELVIC AREA. Some women can reach orgasm by rubbing pelvic areas together or against a lover's leg. This can be done with one partner on top or two women side-to-side.
ANAL SEX. Anal sex can include anilingus (licking the anus) and/or penetration. Penetration can be done with a finger or fingers, dildo or *********. Some women love anal sex, others do not. Like everything else, it's all personal preference.
DILDOS, VIBRATORS & BUTT PLUGS. (Or objects used to vaginal or anal penetration). Some women use dildos and/or butt plugs some do not. Some use them occasionally; some use them all the time. Dildos come in many different shapes, colors and sizes. Some are shaped as corncobs, fists, dolphins or fingers. Some have attachments to stimulate the clitoris during penetration and some have two ends to stimulate two women at one time. It's all personal preference.
FISTING. Fisting is penetrating a woman's vagina with your entire hand. Fisting requires a lot of concentration and caution. I recommend Hand In The Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting, by Deborah Addington, if you want to learn the proper how-to on fisting.
MUTUAL MASTURBATION. Many women enjoy mutual masturbation. Lying while facing each other, simultaneously rubbing and touching each other's clitoris can be educational as well as enjoyable. | No. Teach at Home.
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